Everything is fresh and new to me in the small town I’ve found to live in while enjoying a new phase of my life. I’ve shed the big city for another adventure. This time in the mid-West. I’m working in an enchanting little shop on Main Street, USA. People come in to buy gifts, most often personally engraved with lovely sentiments they want to express to loved ones. It’s easy to fall in love with people when they’re expressing their heartfelt feelings. I get to see the best side of them. Such a pleasure.
A few days ago, I had just said “Goodbye” to a couple who purchased a gift but didn’t know the exact wording they would use for the engraving. It had to be perfect and part of it was to be in a foreign language. They were going to call me later to complete the inscription. We were all excited to see how their creation would turn out.
With a light step, feeling good, I clocked out to have lunch at a restaurant across the street. I like the food there and the service had been very good both times I had eaten there, previously. There’s usually a line out the door at lunch hour. This day I walked in and could see they were busy, but there were a couple of empty tables so I felt lucky to have beaten the crowd. The host greeted me with a menu in his hand. “Table for one, please,” I said. Right then that little jab of recognition hit me, I know it because I’ve eaten in restaurants alone for years. “Sorry,” he said. “I don’t have a table for you now.” My instinct told me that if I had asked for a table for two I would have been seated. I, also, sensed that he knew that I knew he could have seated me.
Okay, “Don’t take it personally,” I told myself. Some people think they’re going to lose money on a single customer. Maybe it’s the culture there. The owner may put pressure on the employees and they have no choice but to follow orders or lose their job. Whatever the situation, I felt sorry for them. For now, I had to consider my options and decide quickly. “Okay, thank you,” I said and left.
I could choose the cafe across the street, but I was in the mood for the Spanish omelette this restaurant served. I headed back to the store to clock back in. I would wait till the lunch rush was over.
As I walked back into the store, the couple who had left me earlier were at the desk, they had returned, unexpectedly, with the information they needed and were so happy to see me. We completed the order for their creation and their gift would now be everything they wanted it to be. Besides that, we had become friends, even if for only a short time that morning.
Always on the lookout for serendipity in my life, I realized, after the couple left, that had I gotten a table earlier or chosen to go to another restaurant, I would have missed those lovely people when they needed me. Isn’t that just how life works? That subtle connection that goes unnoticed most of the time is the magic we really should be appreciating. Is there any doubt we’re all connected?
About an hour later I ventured back into the restaurant. As I caught the eye of the host, I sensed a flicker of recognition (maybe surprise at seeing me again?). I smiled and asked if he had a table for me now. He did, he nodded pleasantly, and led me to a good spot next to a window. Life is good. The Omelette was great.
Reflecting on how the day had gone, I thought about how it might have played out, had I been offended by the hosts rejection. I would have set in motion a whole different sequence of events. To punish him (in my mind only), I might have chosen to have lunch elsewhere and never go to his place again. But I would have been punishing myself. I would have deprived myself of the good food I so enjoyed. If I had taken the rejection personally and been resentful, my appetite would have diminished and the whole lunch experience would have been soured. And, most importantly, I would have missed those lovely people who returned expecting to complete their creation with me. With a hurt heart for the rest of the day, my low energy would have effected anyone with whom I came in contact.
That’s just my side of the experience. The waiters tip and the income for the owners, which they use to pay employees would have been missed. You could extrapolate endlessly on the negative vibration that goes out as a result of taking personally, what isn’t personal.
But, reverse that and think of the infinite positive energy that spreads through your body and out into the world, as a result of a joyful experience. Think of the good health we could each enjoy if we could let things roll off our backs like a duck sheds water. For today, could we forget all the injustices that we feel from our past that build up and cause negative energy in our bodies and minds? For just this moment can you clear your mind, imagine you’re a blank slate, with no past? You don’t even have a name, no label. Everything is fresh and new. Even the future doesn’t exist. Take a deep breath! Let a wave of freedom wash over you. Now that’s a positive vibration!
Doesn’t it feel liberating? Now you are cheerful, going about your day as you see it in the moment. Stuff happens, you deal with it from a place of interest, curiosity, generosity, understanding and compassion. Life responds to you with interest, curiosity, generosity, understanding and compassion. Its a fresh start. Every moment we have a choice. The past is gone, why let it effect our present? The future isn’t here and never will be. It’s always the present moment. We have free will. Choose to love life as you are creating it. Trust nature to respond to your creativity with like vibration.
It is absolutely possible to live this way, no matter what your life is like right now. Choose new and fresh everyday. Look at people as if they are new and fresh. Give them a chance to interact with you from a fresh place. A smile can open the door.
I wish you lovely present moments for the rest of your life,